I can't get up on Sunday morning to go to church .. Why do I need to pray only on a Wednesday and Friday... Why fast... God does not want to see me hungry.. Blah blah blah!!!
There are rules and there are people who follow it religiously. Whether it has meaning or not but we still do. We twist and turn custom as per our comfort. This little piece of information is true for all cultures and religions.
Incident 1: The broken statue
I was cleaning my alter at home and there I notice that one of mother Mary's statue is broken. Since I have another statue I will absolutely fine to discard it. So I keep this on the table and tell my mom to discard it. Mom in return informs me that she will do it next week when she goes to church. Which simply translates to leave it, I will do when when I feel. So being a little irritated, I volunteered to do it my self. My sister is super upset because I am practically throwing away God from my house. She asks me " how will u discard it". I said I will throw it in the dustbin what else. To which she is hysterical and give me a look as if I have just ordered the destruction of the planet. I then go on to ask her what to do, to which she says either u give it to the church or put it in the water. I have a really hard time absorbing this information and I jump asking her "what".. Her usual response " what, what??" Just don't use ur brains and do it. The conversation gets more interesting. What will the church do?. The and was more amusing. Let them do whatever they want you don't use ur head.
The church would also crush these statues and then dispose them in the dustbin. Most of these statues are made of plastic so discarding them in water is the worst idea thus spoiling the most beautiful creation of God.
Incident no 2-
My neighbour is a nice, very religious lady. Her day starts with cleaning the house , then taking a shower, prayers etc. One day she saw me throwing away my used garland in the regular waste. She hysterically asks me "yeh kya kar rahi hain" (what are u doing). I said " kachra phek rahin hoo" . As per her I should preserve this in a plastic bag and then respectfully throw it away. That's exactly what she does. So all those flowers will be rotting away in a plastic for a month and its finally given to someone to dispose them of. I was just curious.. What's different in what I do. I just have a daily process and not monthly activity. I tried to explain all these facts, but it was to no avail.
Incident 3-
Same Aunty has a fast today. And she's stocked up sabudana, mungfali , potatoes, fruits, some singhada atta paratha etc etc. All these things ensure that you stomach is over stuffed so its technically not a fast. The sages who introduced these wanted to pass on a simple message. Let your body relax and your mind be nourished . but then we have made it convenient for us all. Upwas mein yeah sab chalta hain.
Incident 4 - The ganpati pandal.
I have amazing memories of this festival
It included a ten day celebrations in the form of melas , food, orchestra etc. But now it's so commercialised. During one of these days I visited on pandal and my.. It was beautiful. But the issue with this was the music,while we were waiting in line the songs that we heard were munni badnaam hui and sheila ki jawani. People are visiting a holy place you can play this crap. Some men in the crowd start swaying to this in the line. I don't get it. Why do we have to commercialise God?
All these incidents are from my experience with God. From where you belong, any religious, caste, community, does not matter. Our rituals are all the same. God is not found only in temples or churches or in statues. If you cannot keep God in your heart then you will only complicate your life.! Keep God simple and you will be happy.
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