I had almost given up writing as I was too busy running after everything else... My two friends brought different perspective about the joy of writing. So here my learning goes..
A couple of years ago my family was faced with a very difficult situation. The birth of my sister's second child. It is supposed to be the most beautiful phase of a women's life, but in our case it was nothing less than hell.
In the seventh month of pregnancy, my sister was diagnosed with rubella a kind of German Measeals. What this virus apparently does is affects the growth of the child in the womb only. The limbs may be distorted, the mind may not work, chances of a retarded child increase with this virus in your blood. The doctors without thinking suggested the abortion of the child. In the seventh month the abortion is more like a delivery. So you get the kid out and its done.... Ouch
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The moment of Joy had suddenly turned into a grimm situation. There was no doctor in Mumbai whom we did not consult but the same answer. After days of though my sister decided to give birth to the child irrespective of the consequences. No easy decision friend. The result was nice cute absolutely health baby. She is nothing more than a miracle in our lives
So what made the difference. I would say God, the almighty. The other call it HOPE. Technically it should not even exit. It's just the end of the tunnel. That's when your heart refuses to give up and makes sure you see the light. It was very easy for us to go to a doctor and just deliver the child. However we choose the person who gave us hope. A ray of light
I met another person who is on the verge of a nervous breakdown down. Does not know what to do beyond a point. A black out. But what is important is finding that ray of hope with a positive mind.
Hope is a practise that should be followed religious like any other good habbit. Wash your hands before food, take a bath, chew your food etc etc. Teach you kids to have hope. Even thinking about it brings a positive energy and make the impossible possible.
Never ever give up. Life is beautiful, full of trials, error, up and down. But one things that God gives us is hope for a better tomorrow.
perspectives to me.